Archive for May, 2010

26
May

For the record

   Posted by: Tamra    in Outside the box, Vaccinations, health, parenting

Let’s clear some things up.

I am not against medicine, science or technology.

If it weren’t for all those things, I probably would have died during my first pregnancy/birth.  Several friends of mine would have had tiny caskets to bury instead of enjoying a healthy toddler today.  Others I know would have died from cancer long ago.  The list goes on.

With that being said, there are a lot of tenets surrounding medicine, science and technology that I question.  I think we all should question, be willing to at least dig for the why’s and how’s, and then still be willing to say we just don’t absolutely know.  Taking our ques from the latest media or doggedly following a doctor’s opinion is setting oneself up for some big mistakes.

I hate giving specific examples because so often people get lost on a tangent as they frantically point out all the exceptions and what happened to their sister’s husband’s boss’s friend, but here goes…

A lot of people thought I was crazy seven years ago when I threw out all our plastic toys and sippy cups.  I just bit my tongue when about five or six years later the larger media caught wind of the story and then finally the majority of parents knew enough to be enraged about toxins like lead and BPA in our children’s items.

I’ve been asked why on earth I would use cloth diapers in this day and age.  What most parents don’t know is that many disposable diapers contain a long list of chemicals.  Sure, as a parent you can just trust that the “experts” are doing their job of keeping products safe.  But I’m just not the sort of person who waits for the diaper companies to write on their packages, “Caution, this product contains an ingredient similar to the substance that was banned from tampons long ago due to it’s link to toxic shock syndrome. Use at your own risk.”  Suddenly, the telltale droopy dangle from a soaked gel-filled diaper isn’t quite so darling.

And I mentioned my first pregnancy.  Yeah, it was medicine and technology that ended up saving me, but it was my unresponsible, unquestioning trust in them that got me there in the first place.

You see, I was diagnosed with really high blood pressure later in my pregnancy that progressed to eclampsia and toxemia.   Their standard protocol was to eat more saltines, drink more water, and rest with my feet up.  I have no idea who comes up with this stuff.  That kind of salt is perhaps the worst thing I could have been eating.  Since I was gaining weight so rapidly due to my blood pressure problems, I was avoiding protein and good fats.  Again, the worst thing I could have done.  But they told me I was doing it exactly right.

I was also eating fast food every day for 2 of my meals.  I started out packing a lunch, but severe pregnancy exhaustion, plus the fact that I had to be at work at 6:30 am, meant that habit quickly died.  I would usually grab a cheeseburger and a water.  Once in a while I’d get the fries too, since a meal was so cheap and I’d get hungry again so quickly after eating.  I thought that beef, dairy, fresh tomato and lettuce, and a bun couldn’t be all that bad.

What most of us don’t know is the extremely high sodium content in those foods, the dyes and preservatives in every single item, and the formaldehyde all fast food beef is washed in.  Yum.

Okay, so this is just one illustration.  My point is, I know so so so so many people who, like I once did, only get their info from one kind of source, end up in trouble, and then need that same source to help save them.

Now, the vaccine issue.

I am not against parents choosing to vaccinate their children.  All parents certainly should do what they believe is best for their children, their circumstance, and their lifestyle.

I also think parents should be getting ALL the information before they make the choice to vaccinate or not vaccinate.

There are risks with not vaccinating, and there are risks with vaccinating.  The sad thing is, most parents do not receive enough information to make an educated decision.  Most of them ask their pediatrician, and 99% of them will scare parents into vaccinating.

It’s not the doctors’ fault.  We want to believe that they know all the information there is, pro and con, and will pass that on to us.  The largest problem with this is, they get one-sided information handed to them, too.  Doctors are bombarded with tons of papers and journals that are almost impossible to sort through fully.  They fall back on the trusted assumptions that have morphed over the years into spoon-fed dogma.  They’ll say things like “vaccines are estimated to save millions of lives each year”.  They’ll bring up polio and state how the vaccine has virtually eradicated it.  If all else fails, they may, at best, paint the “anti-vaccine” people as ignorant fools who are unaware of the history of vaccinations that have made our “virtually disease-free” society possible, or at worst, as quacks who fall prey to conspiracy theories and put all of us at risk.

What the majority of parents fail to learn is that vaccine damage is not opinion, but based on documented facts with detailed references, most of it from the Center of Disease Control (CDC) itself.  They don’t hear things like the fact that there are more than one hundred vaccine antigens that are injected into children before kindergarten, that the U.S. has paid more than $1 billion to vaccine injured people, that most outbreaks occur in fully vaccinated or over 95% vaccinated populations, that the government’s own records clearly show that childhood diseases (including polio) were in sharp decline before the introduction of vaccines, that vaccines contain at least 39 different toxic additives, preservatives and cell types introduced during the manufacturing process, that the combination effect of all these toxins in children has never been studied (nor has the effect several toxins and antigens being administered at the same time been studied), that cow, chicken, pig, monkey, and human fetus tissue are commonly used in the manufacturing of vaccines, that therefore vaccines can contain contaminants from these animals that are passed on to the vaccinated child…

When it comes to the supposed safety of vaccines, most parents never learn that vaccine studies are relatively small, short and include only healthy children.  When a vaccine trial has been completed, however, vaccines are given to all children, regardless of the condition of their health, family history, or genetics.   Most clinical trials monitor side effects for only 21 days, and sometimes even for only 5 days.

In addition, most parents are shocked to learn that vaccine safety studies do not use a true placebo. One of the standards in medical research is the “placebo-controlled” trial. An inactive substance such as a sugar pill is given as a placebo to one group of participants, while the treatment group is given the new drug. The data is analyzed to compare the number of side effects that occurred in those given the drug compared to the numbers of side effects that occurred in those given the placebo. However, the “placebo” used in vaccine research is not an inert substance such as sterile water; it is another vaccine. Inert, sterile water doesn’t cause a reaction; as substitute vaccine can. If both groups of babies in a trial have the same number of reactions, the study reports that the vaccine “is as safe as a placebo.” This is deceptive science.

It all ties together with the never-discussed fact that vaccine-induced antibodies do not correlate with protection. In fact, the journal Vaccine stated this clearly: “It is known that, in many instances, antigen-specific antibody titers do not correlate with protection.” (The full reference can be found at PMID: 11587808)

I fully vaccinated my first two children fully, including boosters, with no noticeable negative effects.  I never even questioned the idea of vaccinations.

That changed with my third child.  No one at all ever mentioned that she could be at higher risk since she had struggled with things like thrush and severe constipation all through infancy.  I don’t think my doctor even knew of the correlation between vaccine damage and gut health.  And I didn’t know enough then to realize that the health of my child was my responsibility, not my doctor’s.  Lesson learned.

So I will continue to communicate the side of vaccines that isn’t so prevalent.  Parents have a right to be educated about vaccines.  When I hear parents spout the same old tired fear-based mantras surrounding vaccines, I know they aren’t educated on both sides of the issue.  When they are offended by factual information regarding the dangers of vaccines, treat my children as if they carry the plague, or ridicule my choice, it’s a clear sign they aren’t informed.  They are indoctrinated.

I don’t even think all parents should not vaccinate!  If a parent is not willing to hold themselves fully responsible for their child’s health, carry out the difficult task of nourishing their bodies consistently so they can lead healthy lives, and learn effective alternatives to treat problems, then they should vaccinate.  I even tell parents that I will not try to convince them one way or the another.  I will give information, but a parent needs to be fully persuaded in their own mind of their decision.

This could also go for such things as giving birth at home, drinking raw milk, and writing opinionated blogs.

Bottom line…  I fully appreciate and would in a heartbeat make full use of the wonderful and life-saving medicine and technology available.

I also believe, just as strongly, in making fully informed decisions as to why, when, and how I make use of it.

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18
May

If only

   Posted by: Tamra    in Outside the box, Random

There’s a trend in advertisements and movie themes.  It goes like this…

I want to break away from my humdrum existence.  I could if only I had the time/money/opportunity/different spouse/better job. Someday, I will escape the routine I’m trapped in.

Oh, how we love to think that we’re spontaneous!  We despise lack of variety.  We hate tiresome repetitiveness.  Deep inside, we’re courageous and impulsive.

But, boy, do we ever squawk when life throws a curve ball.

Who are we kidding?

No one is forcing us to do the same darn thing every day, week after week, for months and years on end.  In fact, life does everything it can to force us out of our routine.  Flat tires, sick children, broken internet connections..  They all attempt to shake us up and order our days differently.

And yet, when we have a choice, most of us would choose to continue running on our stationary spinning wheel, exerting much energy while going nowhere.

It’s way nicer to think that if only, then we would x, y or z.

Okay, then how about ordering something different at the restaurant? Wear a color you’ve never worn before?

Still think you’re a Viking, exploring new and exciting territory?

For just for a moment, let’s forget fantasizing about some big, crazy escapade.  How about just doing something you’ve never done before… today?  One new thing, every day, for a week?  Even if it’s just a little thing.

I dare ya.

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17
May

Question of the week

   Posted by: Tamra    in Question of the Week, Spiritual

What kind of advice are you listening to?

If you claim to follow Christ, you know that the Bible talks a lot about advice, or counsel.

Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.

The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.

Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.

But not all advice is good advice.  The Bible also says,  Blessed is the man that walks not in the counsel of the ungodly.

Everyone has an opinion.  People love to tell you what they think.  It’s up to us to:

  1. Have the humbleness to listen and accept to biblical counsel
  2. Have the courage to politely refuse unbiblical counsel

Christian, you are responsible for the kind of suggestions, opinions, and guidance you are listening to.

Be discerning.  Just because someone uses a Bible verse doesn’t mean their counsel is biblical.  Some of the absolute worst advice I’ve ever heard is from people who grabbed a verse or two to hammer their point.  If it doesn’t jive with the rest of Scripture, it just isn’t truth.  The Bible must be taken as a whole.

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13
May

Who needs Tylenol, anyway?

   Posted by: Tamra    in health, parenting

There’s a lot of hubbub surrounding the Tylenol recalls. Parents are wondering what on earth to do for their child’s pain or fever.

There are several alternatives out there that work even better than drugs.  I have been using them for years.  In fact, I haven’t purchased or used children’s Tylenol or Motrin for over 8 years.

First of all, parents need to understand that fevers are not a bad thing.  Allowing your child to run a temperature is allowing their body to do it’s job.  Yes, your child is uncomfortable.  Yes, they will be more irritable.  But giving them a false sense of temporary wellness by lowering their temperature so they end up being more active than they should isn’t doing your child any favors in the long run, and could actually be slowing their healing.

The biggest danger during fevers is dehydration, so it’s best to set a timer and have your child take regular small drinks.  Watch them closely to be sure their fever doesn’t rise above a safe level.

To help make my children more comfortable while a fever is running it’s course, I use essential oils.  Peppermint on the feet is very soothing, and will often lower their temperature a little.  It does need to be applied every hour or so.  Just one drop on each foot, diluted with a mixing oil is plenty.

I also use oils that boost their body’s immune system.  My favorite is a blend called Thieves.  I also apply it on their feet, as well as rub it along their spine.  It is also helpful to add a drop to their bath, along with Epsom salts.

In addition to oils, I often turn to homeopathy.  It’s amazing how effective homeopathy is for fevers.  If you are not familiar with using homeopathy, finding the correct remedy can be confusing.  There are several good books out there that make the decision easier (like this, or this, or this)   but you would need a fair-sized collection of remedies.  Hyland’s household kit is what I use.

Hyland’s also takes the guesswork out of homeopathy by offering blends.  On their children’s page, you can find remedies for several problems like earaches, colds, and teething.

Of course, to support your child’s natural healing abilities, please make sure their daily food choices are healthy ones.  It’s just common sense that your children need lots of fruit, vegetables, whole grains, and good fats to remain healthy.  Supplement their diet with Vitamin D, especially in the winter season.  We use fish oil.

I also suggest removing dairy from their diet, if what is offered is the pasteurized and homogenized crap at the store.  Contrary to the commercials, it is a terrible source of calcium and does absolutely nothing to improve bone health.  You’re actually feeding them a non-food that is completely void of nutrition and encourages allergies and excessive mucus.

Limit their sugar intake.  There is sugar in everything, including lunch meat, ketchup and crackers.  So NO, they don’t need juice or candy or packaged cookies to add to the heaping tablespoons they’re already eating in their regular food.

Read labels.  Not the nutrition information, although that is somewhat helpful.  Read the ingredients. If you can’t pronounce them, or recognize what they are, do a Google search.

And… that’s a clue that you probably shouldn’t feed it to your kid.

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12
May

a tale of 3 chairs

   Posted by: Tamra    in Decorating, Homemaking

Just take a look at these sad little things.

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Visit my other blog TamraGirl to see my “new” chairs.

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3
May

What is the Bible?

   Posted by: Tamra    in Spiritual

People who do not hold a personal respect for the Bible scoff that people would need a book to tell them what to do.

They have a really good point.

The thought that any one would depend on some ancient dead guys’ writings and letters to direct their lives seems… stupid.  And mindless.

Christians themselves perpetuate this confusing viewpoint by referring to the Bible incorrectly.

Contrary to what many Christians say, the Bible is not a road map. It’s ultimate purpose is not to be a guide, an instruction manual, nor a history book.

If we primarily view the Bible in this way, the only helpful pieces would be parts of the Gospels and then perhaps Psalms and Proverbs.  The rest really wouldn’t make much sense.

In the first few books, God seems like an angry, vengeful deity who hands out rules, plays favorites, and expects the impossible.   Next comes the group of weird books with hard to pronounce names that seem to have no point except to depress us.  Song of Solomon comes out of nowhere with it’s sexual language and aimless story.  The Epistles seem to just tell random events about some radical and messed up weirdos.  It’s all ended by the most baffling book, full of strange creatures and odd dreams.

Now, the Bible certainly does contain history, clear instruction on how to live, and offers wisdom in many different facets of life.  So what happens when that is our focus?

Let’s say that as Christians we know that we need to go to the Bible to know what to do in a situation.  What if we can’t find a verse that directly deals with what we have a question about or are struggling with?

Even if we were to find exact commandments for what we are looking for (Do not steal.  Don’t have sex with your father’s mother.  Give to the poor.) we still wouldn’t really understand why we should or shouldn’t do or say whatever it is.   It would either still seem arbitrary and therefore pointless, or it would be done out of some odd sense of shame.

So what is the primary purpose of the Bible?

To put it really, almost too, simply, the Bible is God means of telling us about Himself.  He reveals Himself through recording his design, how he’s worked through man, and his plans .  More importantly, it tells of redemption, how he saved us.  Everything in the Bible points to Jesus and salvation through him.

When viewed in this way, the Bible suddenly becomes clearer. The reader can see God’s hand at work as he created perfectly, and his power and majesty.  The Law he gave reveals our desperate need of a Savior as we realize we are full of sin to our core and unable to follow it.  The books of the prophets point to God’s justice, mercy, and our need of grace.  The record of Jesus’ life and teachings reveal on an even more intimate level the intent and heart of God in a real way.  We then see imperfect people transformed by Jesus’ resurrection and the power of his Spirit to live radical lives of love and service.  It ends with illustrating God’s upcoming and inevitable triumph through Satan’s destruction and the birth of a new heaven and earth.

In this way, Christians believe that the Bible is the authoritative rule of a Christians life.  We know that we are to apply it to our lives fully, in all practices, beliefs and doctrine.  The difference is, it is through the spirit of the law, as revealed through Jesus’ life, teachings, sacrificial death, resurrection, and current interceding.

When we go to the Bible for guidance and instruction, we are meant to read it through the lens of it being about Jesus, not our selves.

The conclusions we come to should be a result of our love for God and our desire to have a close relationship with him.  Our convictions should be born of the Spirit’s urgings, and the good things we do should be a product of His presence.  We’ll be able to see the incomparable blessings and joy there is through living holy and upright, according to God’s design.  We will view everything as God’s gift to us, causing great thankfulness and wise stewardship.  We’ll be constantly smitten and awestruck with the reality of grace, causing us to live humbly and with great love and service to others.

Everything will be seen as giving glory to him.  It will take our eyes off ourselves and turn them up onto him and his finished work.

We see the Bible as God’s words to us, recorded by men as they were inspired by God himself. Therefore, we trust He has preserved it and it is without error.  We believe that it is fully sufficient and we cannot add to or take from it.

It is relevant.  It is alive.

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