We had a party here recently, a benefit for the Flint Cultural Center.

By the way, I think there’s a difference between gatherings like this (entertaining) and regular hospitality.

I’ve told you all how we furnished our first new home with all-brand-new stuff.  We were completely taken in by the “one year same as cash” and “easy monthly payments” of the slick furniture stores.

I cringe when I think of that now.

I think it’s sad that so many think they have to live with dingy, ugly homes because they can’t afford to buy new.  For as little as $5 to $20 (or even FREE!) and a can of spray paint, they could have a “new” table or bookshelf.  For the small cost of material on clearance, they could make no-sew curtains that look store-bought.

There are some things you have to buy new.  Like mattresses.  (Ew.)  But we had so much fun finding tables and chairs for our lake home.  Flea markets, antique shows, consignment shops and yard sales… It’s like finding hidden treasures.

It takes a little practice.   There is a lot of junk.  A lot of over-priced junk.  And too many people get caught up in the color of a piece, and end up overlooking a great find.

Look at the shape of the piece.  Remember that you can paint it any color you want.  Don’t be too worried about scratches or dings.  Those can actually add to the look.  Besides, your friends and family will only add to the wear and tear!

I am not above stopping at someone’s curb and loading up something they considered garbage.  A little TLC and, wow, you’d hardly recognize it!

Over the years, I’ve found some online blogettes that share my passion for frugal decorating and furnishing.  What I’ve noticed is that these ladies have absolutely beautiful homes, that often look as though you’re looking through a magazine.   They’ve inspired me, challenged me, and encouraged me.

Here’s just a few.  There are lots more out there! Do you have any favorites?  Email me!

Nesting Place
A Soft Place to Land
The Inspired Room